Leading the Gap
In my work with leaders and organizations, we often approach change as a project to manage—defined timelines, clear outcomes, and checklists to track progress. While there are many good reasons to do so, real-life change on the job or off, doesn’t operate on a tidy schedule. It arrives layered, uncertain, and deeply personal. Whether it’s a role shift, organizational restructuring, or a full career pivot, most change doesn’t start with clarity. It starts with a question—and often, with doubt.
I explored this in my TEDx talk, Working in the Gaps, where I shared a truth we rarely say out loud: doubt is not a sign of failure. It’s a signal that growth is happening. The gap between where we’ve been and where we’re going isn’t empty. It’s rich with questions, emotions, and transformation.
In my first book 49 Chameleons, I describe how adaptability isn’t about always knowing what to do next—it’s about staying present long enough to figure it out. Chameleons don’t change for show. They change in response to their environment while still holding onto their essential structure. That’s what real leadership through change looks like.
Lately, I’ve worked with many professionals standing in this space between “what was” and “what’s next.” Some are navigating new opportunities. Others are reassessing what they want. Most are feeling a mix of uncertainty, excitement, and pressure to figure it out fast.
But here’s the message I keep returning to: The space between here and there is not a detour. It’s part of the journey.
It’s where we learn what still fits and what we’ve outgrown. It’s where resilience is built, not just talked about. It’s where we get to redefine success in ways that are both strategic and personal.
Questions for Reflection:
- What shift—internal or external—are you currently navigating?
- What are you learning about yourself in this space?
- What support, systems, or voices are helping you stay grounded?
- How can you normalize doubt as part of your growth, not the opposite of it?
I often say that leadership isn’t just about getting things done—it’s about learning who you are in the process.
If you’re in the space between here and there, I see you. Remember, you’re also not supposed the be the same leader you were yesterday, a month ago or a year ago. And from here, it is about getting better.
Because when we normalize doubt and honor transition, we don’t just manage change—we grow through it.
Watch the TEDx talk "Working the Gaps" here.
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